Having a new baby is exciting for the whole family! Everyone wants to meet the new baby as soon as they possibly can. This excitement is absolutely understandable, but this time can also be quite stressful for the parents. Whether this is a first baby, or if baby was welcomed by several siblings, a new baby always bring a change from previous routines and a need for rest and recuperation.
Setting boundaries with well-intentioned through the first few days or weeks can be a healthy way to ensure the family is able to recover and bond as needed. It can feel difficult to set new boundaries, especially with family members. It’s important to remember that boundaries are not placed to harm your relationship or to cause feelings of harm to your family and friends. The intention is to help ensure that your new family has time to bond and recover from the overwhelm that birth often brings.
Parents may choose to share their chosen guidelines ahead of time, whether directly or through social media posts. I’ve attached a free, printable door sign and social media graphic of guidelines below; feel free to share!
What boundaries or guidelines did you set postpartum? Let us know in the comments; your ideas may help other new families choose their own!